Spanking, Arousal and Relaxation

Spanking is found in many forms. Used properly by adults with other adults it can be very freeing for the spirit and mind.

It can be used as a punishment in an agreed upon format for behaviors that the spankee wants to change. In this context arousal is not usually a result, but a release of stress and emotion does follow the punishment, when administered with care and understanding.

In other contexts it can be very arousing as foreplay or just spanking play in general. The pudendal nerve can be stimulated by spanking and in some people can even lead to orgasm just through spanking. Spanking can be both physically arousing and psychologically arousing if the recipient likes to release control, thus being more free to feel. Some people can become aroused even from the most severe spankings if they are in a good headspace and the spanker is in tune with the spankee and their needs.

For others the endorphins released leave the spankee feeling in most cases calm and relaxed, some to the point of falling asleep. That is an exceptional gift to a spankee and great compliment to the spanker if a spankee is comfortable enough and the spanker skilled enough to put a spankee in a state of such complete relaxation.