Spanking for the Beginning Spankee

Are you a new spankee just embarking on getting your first spanking ? The first two rules in spanking are safety and communications.
Safety:
You want to make sure the spanking takes place in a safe setting. If it is someone you know well then pick a place that is comfortable for both participants. If it is someone [...]

Kushiel’s Chosen

The main theme in the Kushiels Legacy series continued in Kushiel’s chosen is love as thou wilt. The second book is Kushiel’s Chosen.
When Phedre no Delaunay, Comtesse de Montreve, receives a direct challenge from the traitor Melisande Shahrizai , who escaped prison with the aid of unknown conspirators, now an escaped fugitive from the land of [...]

Arnica

Arnica is available in gel format for external use as aftercare to minimize bruising. I have had good luck with Arnica for the healing of bruising I have received due to excessive play at parties. The gel is cooling on a sore bottom. It should be used after you are done with playing for the [...]

Cravings

The chocolate in the picture reminds me of perfectly lined up cane stokes…hmm, yes, cravings tend to make even chocolate relate back to spankings.
So how often do people, who are spankee’s, need to be spanked? Do they really need to be spanked at all? Being someone who likes my spankings, I would have to say yes! [...]

Compleat Spanker

Lady Green, a lifelong spanking aficionado, covers the bases of consensual adult erotic spanking: negotiation, roles, anatomy, implements, positions and more. Witty and practical. The Compleat Spanker is an ideal gift for anyone contemplating an over-the-knee adventure.
This is a great book for beginners. It is also a good book to give to someone who doesn’t [...]

Kushiels Dart

This book by Jaqueline Carey is the first inthe Kushiels’ Legacy series.
 In the character of Phedre no Delaunay, “a whore’s unwanted get” sold into indentured servitude in opulent Night Court, the author has created a particularly strong and memorable female lead, and has surrounded her with a large and varied cast, from nobles and priests [...]

The Hand as a Spanking Implement

Probably the most versatile of all implements is the hand. It is also the least expensive and the most accessible. The only limitation to using your hand is how sensitive your hand is. It can be used very lightly for erotic spankings to very hard as a punishment. The advantage to using your hand over [...]

Leather as a Spanking Implement

Leather is a much more forgiving implement than wood or the man made materials. Leather on the lighter side has a very domestic feel in the belts and light straps or smaller leather paddles. On the heavier side it has more of an institutional feel when it runs to the prison straps and the floggers [...]

Wood as a Spanking Implement

Wood though not as unforgiving as some of the man made materials is still a rather harsh implement; as I can attest to having had a spoon paddle broken on my bottom. Wood for some people, such as me, it has a very domestic or scholastic feel to it depending on the implement. The hairbrush [...]

Entertainment vs Abuse

In a book I read, the main character had just watched the torture of two kidnappers, who were selling children into slavery. The character is one who is named by some as “pain bearer”. She is aroused by her own pain, but pain in a very controlled environment through flogging etc. Another of the characters [...]